Years ago, as a parent, and now, as a grandparent, I love the opportunity to create an educational environment in my home. And what better time of year to do that than the holidays?!
Since the time I began teaching our classes (over 17 years ago), we have always wrapped up our final class days just prior to Thanksgiving. Then we begin again in January of the new year. But for two months we take a break from many of the school routines that have kept us in check over the fall months. Perhaps you feel the need for some change in your routines. Or maybe you’re just settling into your routines, and that’s fine too. Whichever the case for you, now is a time to create memories and give yourself and your children permission to think outside the box. What might that look like? You tell me. I know you and your children have great ideas and opportunities to create, engage, enjoy, give . . . all the while learning. Here are some ideas to get your creative mental ball rolling:
Baking, building, sewing - all these (and more) require reading and mathematics
Painting, sketching, coloring, stitching - all these (and more) develop fine motor skills and an eye for beauty
Singing, playing instruments, listening to holiday tunes - all these (and more) lift spirits and energize or relax bodies
Decorating, making gifts, playing with friends/siblings, cleaning and organizing, serving the needy - all these (and more) promote productive life skills and moral character.
For a few weeks in late November and December, my children and I enjoyed a later start to our school days, and we focused on holiday themed reading and writing along with a math lesson. That simple plan left hours each day for creative learning and memory making. I know how heavy all of life can feel, especially the years of overseeing the educational needs of young (even teen) children. Trust me when I say it’s okay to take it easy for a bit. Education includes so much more than formal curriculum. It includes new experiences and opportunities to enjoy life and serve others.
Whatever your family beliefs, the holiday season holds deep meaning and abundant opportunities for you to connect with each other in meaningful ways, imparting your values to your children. We all know this season is not about the gifts, but we sometimes get caught up in the demands and expectations anyway. Remember to speak life to yourself, your family, your friends, and even strangers.
Let’s take some time to write down ideas about how we can enjoy this season.
Let’s invest in relationships before spending on purchases.
As we make plans, we will hold our plans loosely knowing that flexibility often limits stress.
We’ll model joy as we reflect on the true meaning of the holiday season, and we’ll recognize and affirm our families as they do the same . . . in small ways.
We’ll end each day thankful for something and/or someone.
That’s a good start. Perhaps you’ll add to the list of affirmations and choose what speaks life into your soul. Then you’ll be ready to jump into the holiday season with both feet.
Speaking life, Kris
Written by: Kris Cordell